Are you stuck in everything that’s urgent forgetting about everything that’s important? You may continue living like this until you die. Do you want to? Some people did not, and they came up with bucket lists.
A bucket list is something you wish to do in your life – big dreams, grand ambitions, small goals and something you are simply curious about. It may be something like learning to ride a bicycle or climbing mount Everest, or giving birth to 5 children.
As long as your heart asks for it, write it in your bucket list.
Kicking the bucket means dying, so your bucket list is everything you plan to do before you die.
People used to write bucket lists for life. In today’s fast-paced life we started writing lists for decades or 5-year time slots.
Let’s do it?
- Choose what kind of bucket list you will write (for life, 30 things to do before you turn 30, 20 before 20)
- Take a piece of paper and a pen
- Write down YOUR OWN BUCKET LIST
If you are looking for inspiration, I give you 100 ideas below.
Include them into your list ONLY if you resonate with them!
- Paint a painting
- Live in 5 different places (cities, countries or even apartments)
- Learn how to play a musical instrument
- Go to 100 countries (if you list out the countries you want to go to, you are more likely to go there. You can also add the countries you have been to into your Couchsurfing account to inspire others)
- Read 100 books
- Smile to 10 strangers until they smile back to you
- Go to an exotic country
- Write a book (or a blog post, a story, a poem)
- Start your own business
- Learn a foreign language
- Work for a big company
- Go for an extreme sport (bungee or parachute jumping, white water rafting, snowboarding, etc)
- Shave your head
- Eat a meal with your eyes closed, or in the dark
- Kiss a stranger
- Take a bath in sparkling wine
- Live in a big metropolitan city (like New York, Shanghai, Bangkok)
- Live in the countryside
- Get a dog/cat
- Sing a song in public – especially if you are really shy to do it
- Give a gift to someone who cannot afford it – if this person dreams about your gift, you will make their day so so special
- Volunteer for a cause you care for
- Do not speak a word for a whole day – a day of silence
- Have sex on the airplane/ train/ car
- Go to a silent meditation retreat
- Start your own social media channel, share your knowledge with the world – Instagram, Youtube, Facebook group, etc
- Write a song
- Go to a naked beach
- Celebrate something you don’t normally celebrate – the end of the workday, or the fact you said “no” when you did not want something, or the fact that you are alive
- Bake a cake
- Write a song/poem for someone you love
- Swim across a river/ lake
- Learn how to do a headstand/ handstand
- Perform in a play – it can be amateur theatre or even improvisation theatre
- Laugh for 10 minutes right after waking up one day
- Go to a city/village you don’t know and spend a day wandering around there
- Go on as many dates in one day as you can arrange
- Build something/ create something
- Go trekking and sleep in a tent
- Climb a mountain
- Organise your family reunion
- Plant a tree/ flower/ garden
- Dress up as a beggar, wander around town and see how people react
- Learn how to give a massage
- Go to a cave
- Take part in a self-development course/ seminar
- Study Non-violent communication
- Write a letter to your future self (open it in 10-20-30 years)
- Go to a tea ceremony
- Have a baby/ two babies/ five babies / adopt a child
- Run in a marathon/ half-marathon/ Color run
- Go to a concert of your favourite band
- Switch off your phone for a week and go offline – personal digital detox
- Spend a sleepless night under the starts
- Try psychedelics – magic mushrooms or sacred plants like ayahuasca, san pedro etc.
- Get a tattoo
- Make your own piece of clothing
- Learn to cook an exotic dish
- Have a real conversation with your parents – admit how grateful you are, and how much you love them
- Drive a taxi/ uber
- Don’t buy anything except for groceries for a whole month
- Go to a music festival
- Practice lucid dreaming
- Draw a mandala
- Give something you really love away – your favourite thing to a friend who needs it more, or a big amount of money to charity
- Buy something expensive
- Sell something expensive
- Live alone for some time
- Give a public speech in front of many people
- Buy a coffee/dinner to a stranger
- Study abroad
- Make something handmade – jewellery, furniture, pottery, etc
- Go on vacation to tropical islands
- Move to a new country
- Clean up trash in your neighbourhood
- Go hunting
- Get a colon cleansing/ panchakarma (Indian body and mind cleansing procedure)
- Fast for a week or two
- Play a team sport
- Go on a reading retreat – one week on your own and all the books you wanna read
- Run naked in a crowded street
- Go to a kinky BDSM sex party
- Walk barefoot in a city for a day
- Make your own chocolate/ cheese/ ice-cream
- Eat only raw foods for a week/month/ year
- Buy a bouquet of flowers/ bucket of ice-cream and give it to everyone in the street
- Eat something strange – crickets/ scorpio/ starfish/ smelly fermented fish/ bird nest
- Hug a panda
- Take part in a ceremony/ make your own ceremony
- Learn a lesson from history – go to a concentration camp/ Hiroshima and Nagasaki or Chernobyl
- Live in a commune – there are many new age communes and some of them welcome visitors
- Write a letter to someone you let go of burn it
- Discover a new species/ land/ phenomenon
- Buy something you really like, even if you don’t need it
- Become a digital nomad – travel the world and work on your laptop
- Collect herbs and make your own tea
- Go on a blind date
- Hang yourself on the hooks from your skin (Ihor can tell you more about this)
- Go free diving/ scuba diving
- Meet a famous person you admire
Remember to enjoy everything you do, don’t be afraid to let go of things that do not serve you anymore.
Have fun!